A simple prayer.
Lord,
Let my sleep be deep;
My work be driven;
And my love be filled with You.
Today, and everyday.
Amen.
Lord,
Let my sleep be deep;
My work be driven;
And my love be filled with You.
Today, and everyday.
Amen.
Never touch anything with half of your heart; be present; be endlessly loving and compassionate towards others; confront anything situation first with a deep breath; wander; remember that your own happiness and comfort are also important; before reacting, understand.
Eat breakfast; find the faces in the flowers; remember what is important to you; treat your body kindly; be honest; get to know yourself; take thing at your own pace; don’t feel embarrassed to feel, to laugh, to cry, to sing or to love; remember what is right for someone else may not be what is right for you, and that is okay; never be ashamed or afraid to ask for help; do what you love; remember that you always have a choice; find joy in what life really is: living.
And never, ever forget that everything happens for a reason.
Because life is on your side.
Like bullets in the midst of shadows, words are cataclysmic and send you spinning.
Your mother tells you that ‘sticks and stones may break your bones, but words will never hurt you’, but you soon realise that they shatter everything that you once held dear; they penetrate deeper than any sword or spear and leave scars that may never heal. They make you question yourself, everyone else and anything else. Because under every word, is heartbreak. Under every last whisper is the crashing sound of torment.
Words make you lose faith. They shake you; they break you.
That is, if you let them.
You have the choice. You can let them burn you, or instead, you can let them burn. You can destroy every hushed syllable or streaked black letter and watch them emblazen in flames. Rather than succumb to their harsh criticism and deceit, you can use them as firewood in the inferno of your passions.
You can either become numb inside, or you can become numb to their appraisal.
You can either believe what they have to say, or you can believe yourself what you have instilled in yourself.
You can change their opinions of you, as long as you never change your opinion of yourself.
Because, you have what it takes.
You wouldn’t be where you are now if you didn’t.
A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick out teeth, but if you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.
-Roald Dahl
Go after her. Don’t sit there and wait for her to call, go after her because that’s what you should do if you love someone, don’t wait for them to give you a sign because it might never come, don’t let people happen to you, don’t let me happen to you, or her, she’s not a television show or tornado. There are people I might have loved had they gotten on the airplane or run down the street after me or called me up drunk at four in the morning because they need to tell me right now and because they cannot regret this and I always thought I’d be the only one doing crazy things for people who would never give enough of a fuck to do it back or to act like idiots or be entirely vulnerable and honest and making someone fall in love with you is easy and flying 3000 miles on four days notice because you can’t just sit there and do nothing and breathe into telephones is not everyone’s idea of love but it is the way I can recognize it because that is what I do. Go scream it and be with her in meaningful ways because that is beautiful and that is generous and that is what loving someone is, that is raw and that is unguarded, and that is all that is worth anything, really.
-Harvey Milk
Because, it’s the things that we don’t do which we most regret. The worst case scenario is that things just don’t work out.
But at least then you’ll know. At least then you’ll know that you tried.
At least you had faith in something and had the courage to chase it and find that it wasn’t meant to be, rather than letting it burn out and constantly wonder what could have been.
And the best case scenario? They feel the exact same way.
And you never look back.